Why Women And Men Love Exotic Dancers And Triple X Movies

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By stacies29

The Secret Desire's We All Have Within

It seems as though I had to change the controversial title of this hub with the fact indeed being voiced that "WOMEN" love sexy movies and dancers just as much as men. Yeah I guess you can say I am one of those sexually adventurous women and I totally agree with the concept of watching triple X movies with your lover etc. I got a lot of insight about why we like them and exotic dancers and why some people do not.

Exotic Dancer(n) ~ One who performs a striptease AKA Stripper

Strip-tease (n) ~ A performance, as in a burlesque act, in which a person slowly removes clothing usually while dancing to music.

Pornography (adj.) ~ Is the depiction of explicit sexual subject matter for the purpose of arousing the viewer.

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" Let's Face It, Exotic Dancing Is Hard Work "

Exotic Dancer's face a lot of challenges in the role that they portray no matter how professional the club atmosphere is. There is a lot of jealousy inside the club with the dancer's always trying to uphold the title of "Best Dancer" and most money getter. The men and women who work at these clubs usually are not in the mood for the daily events that they have to endure. The pressure that these dancer's face is tremendous.

Everyone that dances is not out for just a freaked out profession, some are in college or single moms and dads trying to get ahead instead of getting by. I know a few dancer's personally and they all have their very own reason's for why they do what they do including taking care of sick loved one's and more. When it is all said and done, it is up to you if you want to stay in the profession of exotic dancing or take a leap over to the sometimes darkside of tthe porn industry.

People like to go to strip clubs because it is a known fact of the fantasy enviroment it can give you. The women and men are sometimes extremely good looking and sexy with assets you do not see everyday with your usual lovers. Does it mean that you do not find your partner attractive if you have one?? Of course not in some situations.

You do have the few egotistical men and women who will go behind the scene's and cheat with these dancer's for a small fee or a huge one just for a few minutes of pleasure. But most people I have talked to say they just go for fun and a little excitement. Hmmmm... What does that mean?? Does it mean that your wife or husband is not doing the job right?? In some cases that could be the case in other's it is just a innocent night out with your friends.

The Naked Truth

Some couples are scared to let their partners know that they have a desire to watch videos or go to strip clubs but you would be surprised how many partner's are secretly into these natural desire's. When you are open with your partner, it is easy not to feel as embarassed when you buy a sex tape or tap into a triple X website out of the blue. Secretly stashing your magazines, tapes etc. could lead to a night on the couch and years of mistrust. I personally think that it is very disrespectful to sneak and go to strip clubs because most people have a stereotype about these types of places.

A lot of exotic dancers are not just dancers. Some give up extra favors on the side and it makes all the legit and profesional dancers look bad. Is a lap dance exceptable? Only if you are single to mingle. If you are in a union, you should take your partner's feeling's into consideration and if they do not like you going either do not go or find a new partner. Plain and simple. You would be surprised how many couples go to the strip club together. I guess the point of it all is that we are all human and everyone has a wild side that they can not show regularly so it is not unusual to have desire's to look at exotic dancers or triple X movies.

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Exotic Dancers and Relationships

Stripped: Inside the Lives of Exotic Dancers
Amazon Price: $13.99
List Price: $23.00
Burlesque Exotic Dancers of the 50s & 60s
Amazon Price: $15.55
List Price: $24.99

Some Of The Best Gentlemens Clubs In The World

  • Mons Venus - Tampa, Florida

  • Seventh Heaven - Tokyo, Japan

  • Le Crazy Horse - Paris France

  • Spearmint Rhino - Las Vegas, Nevada

  • 4 Play Gentleman's Club - Los Angelas, California

  • Larry Flynt's Hustler Club - New York, New York

  • Night Flight - Moscow, Russia

  • Hot Lap Dance - New York, New York

Comments

Nelle Hoxie 2 years ago

Very interesting perspective. I'm always amazed at how (other) women act at strip clubs.(I'm the quiet one demurely sitting with her drink.) I don't mind what I'm seeing on stage, but I'm usually embarrassed by the women I'm with. Usually these are bachleorette parties and the like, that I couldn't say no to. (FYI I'm not seeing any adsense ads.)

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stacies29 Hub Author 2 years ago

I agree totally Nellie. Thanks for the FYI.

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nawnaniner 2 years ago

Wow you had some great points! I am definately agree with you, great hub!!

JM Black 2 years ago

Written with a ton of thoughtful intelligence. Thanks for reminding the world that, despite the fantasy, real men and women with real lives, minds and motivations work in the "sex" industry.

Well done!

mpdrive 2 years ago

dancers i think fulfill a fantasy that people are imagining from what they see online. it's gotta be difficult going to sites such as http://myporndrive.com or redtube without wanting some sort of say "action" i suppose. so dancers kind of takes human to that next level...it's called contact.

what i think can be appreciated is that the people that get lap dances are able to restrain themselves...

iwhcpanties 2 years ago

I like what you have written. I like to watch them, but I would not go any further and actually I have only viewed a few dancers in my life. My wife has done it for me in the bedroom and it does add a great sensual feeling to the night! No she is not an erotic dancer, but that is not a requirement to have a good evening!

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Jaster Rock 2 years ago

Great hub. A long time ago, a neighbour of mine was introduced to me. She was what you call a "hottie". Tall, long legs, blonde hair, large implants. But she was mentally on the same page as me. We hung out a few times and hit it off. Lot's of things in common. Especially music ... one of my PASSIONS.

About 2 weeks later she called me on the phone in tears. Appollogizing for keeping a secret from me. She was a dancer. I didn't care. She was a single mother, just doing the best she could. She told me all about the "inside scoop" at the clubs. She asked if I still wanted to see her. OF COURSE. We connected on so many levels. And we hadn't even slept together at this point.

We dated for about a year, then she quit the business, and now is a sales rep for a clothing line. Which was great for her.

I talk to her via Facebook from time to time still. She was probably one of the coolest and most grounded people I have ever met. She had a timeline and stuck to it. And I am proud of her.

Peace

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trusouldj Level 3 Commenter 15 months ago

Amazing what lengths one has to sometimes go to in order to survive ...

vic 5 months ago

I don't..it's gross

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